So. Hey there. How you livin’? I hope you don’t think I’ve forgotten you, because I totally haven’t. (That sounded creepier than intended.)
Anywho. School started today. Wait, that needs more emphasis… School started TODAY!!! I love my children, really I do. Like, more than they could possibly bear. Like, I would gnaw off my own arm if it would prevent something bad from happening to them.
I’m not sure how me gnawing off one of my own limbs would save them from something. Anything. At all. But I would do it! If that situation ever presented itself…
Where was I going with that? Ugh. Why is everything so awkward tonight? What. Is. Going. On???
Let’s start over. We’re friends, right? Sometimes my friends like to call me to whine talk about stuff and I listen and try not to give dumb advice. I’m really terrible at advice. Like if you called me and said you had just gotten your hair colored and you were crying and you hated it, I’d probably suggest that you just shave it. And then proceed to list various cool people who are bald and convince you that yes, your face shape would totally support the bowling ball look. And, while my advice may be terrible, at the time I wholeheartedly believe it and am fairly good at convincing people I’m right so just… be careful. And don’t ask me for advice. Just tell me to shut up. So guess what? You get to be that friend today. Not the one I convince that bald is beautiful. The one who listens to me whine. Feel free to tell me to shave my head when I’m done, but my mom always said I only hear what I want to hear. So just… remember that. I have “selective hearing”. It’s a gift.
My kids started school today and that is completely awesome. They all wore cute clothes, brushed their hair and teeth, I was awarded Mom of the Decade because I got up before 8am and made them pancakes (gluten free and from scratch. yea, I’m amazing like that), they all had fun at school, there was extra recess time, etc, etc. Here’s the part where I whine and freak out.
Y’all. I spent three hours cleaning my nine year old’s room today. THREE HOURS. I was sweaty, dirty, dusty and somehow covered in sand (what?). In short, I was a total hot mess. My kid is evidently a hoarder. When did this happen? How did this happen?! I am not the kind of person who keeps stuff. I think it’s a result of moving a bazillion times as a kid, or maybe it’s an extension of my OCD, but either way, I throw stuff away on the regular. Trash, recycling, Goodwill, friends, neighbors, whatever. If I haven’t used it in 6 months I obviously don’t need it and out it goes. My oldest child is evidently the Yin to my Yang. The peanut butter to my jelly. The ninja to my pirate… Anyway. The point is, she keeps EVERYTHING.
If you wrote her a letter 8 years ago, she still has it. If she got a pencil in her Valentine’s box at school in 1st grade and she chewed on it and the eraser is gone but it still has 2 inches of lead left, she still has it. If she secretly ate a piece of Halloween candy 2 years ago, I can guarantee you the evidence is tucked away in her room somewhere. It. Was. Revolting.
I ended up removing not one, but TWO 13 gallon size trash bags of junk from her room. That’s twenty-six gallons of garbage. Twenty-six! That doesn’t even include all of the paper trash that went into the recycling bin. Are you kidding me?!
So, after sweating and being totally grossed out and picking some things up using only my fingertips and wishing I had rubber gloves for three hours, then actually cleaning her room and taking out the trash and rearranging her furniture a bit so that everything has a place and it’s all nice and shiny and wonderful, I started to get excited because she’s going to be home soon. Excited and a little worried. She’s not a big fan of people touching her stuff and not only did I touch it, but I threw twenty-six gallons of it away.
Cold sweats. Pacing. Texting my friend to say that if she hasn’t heard from me by 5pm she may want to tell my husband to come home from work. The front door opens. Expostulations about the First Day of School are shouted. Bedroom doors open. Here it is, the moment when she realizes her evil, total big meanie of a mother has lain in wait all summer only to sneak into her room the first day she’s gone and has thrown away All Her STUFF.
“Oh Mom, you cleaned my room. Cool. I’m hungry.”
Seriously?